Well, it’s been awhile. Lots going on and I haven’t been able to make it back to blogging.
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First of all (so very hard to write this), I was with my youngest son and his wife for a month while they were waiting on their first baby. In very sad news, their little baby girl was stillborn. We are all quite heartbroken as you can imagine.
Then, when I got back home, my aging father had declined even more since some serious troubles in January. As it stands now, we are making sure that he and my mother (who has Alzheimer’s), have 24 hour care from their children. When my dad passes, my mom will still need much care and help as my dad and my next younger sister have been shouldering the brunt of that challenge for a long time.
And if that wasn’t enough, my husband has recently decided to sell our home of almost 20 years. His health hasn’t ever fully recovered from 2 winters ago and we have had many struggles. In the end, we have had to face up to the fact that life is not going return to the reality we previously enjoyed. There is no choice but to make some life changes, whether we want to or not. I am on board with the need for downsizing, but am facing quite a lot of overwhelm at the moment. The house and property are in need of some major tlc, which our children have offered to help out with before the listing & selling. Thankfully we won’t be going at it alone but wowsers, such good timing! Is it wrong of me to already be grieving the loss of my quilting room too?
That being said, quilting and blogging are going to be on a back burner, as needs must. I do have a quilt in the hoop and several handwork projects prepped so yeah. Not giving up on quilting completely! Will possibly pop back in here occasionally or if it seems easier in the short term, over at my quilty_folk Instagram. {I just can’t imagine having the time for long blog posts.}
Thanks for hanging out with me through the almost 15 years of blogging. It’s been wonderful to find true quilting friends. As to the Bramble Blooms QAL, I guess my BBIII is on hold for the indeterminate future? Yours doesn’t have to be though. There should be enough posted for anyone interested in continuing, to finish up and see a 3-quilt comparison. We’ll see where this next chapter of our life takes us. I’ve heard that change is sometimes the catalyst for better things in life…
Oh my goodness you've been through a lot lately, but it sounds like you're doing your best to make the best of it all. I hope the downsizing turns out to be a blessing, though I know getting there will be difficult. I hope you do get to come back to blogging and such.
ReplyDeleteHi Audrey, sorry to hear of your loss. The changes sometimes is out of one control. Wishing you the best and hope you have even bigger quilting space in the future. I’m seeing your post on IG so nice and short notes would be great. All the best and thanks for your inspirations. Nat
ReplyDeleteAudrey, you have been handed a number of life's challenges at once. I'm sorry! Please know that you have given me so much inspiration through the years, and I will miss your posts. I hope that you continue to find contentment and peace with your quilting. Thank you!!!
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry about your little granddaughter. I worry so much when each of my grandchildren tell me they are expecting a baby. I hope you can work it out with all of the family members for your parents' care and getting your property ready for sale. I would be grieving the loss of a quilting room too, as I'm sure a lot of your readers would feel. I hope you keep posting photos on IG even if you don't have time to write a lot. I always enjoy seeing your progress on your quilts.
ReplyDeleteAudrey siento que la vida te golpea fuerte esta temporada, aquí también recibimos golpes muy fuertes este año, el Alzheimer también nos golpeo, nuestra querida madre lo sufrió durante 17 años. Envió fuertes abrazos, te sigo en Instagran
ReplyDeleteOh so very sorry to hear of your recent events! I will be praying for you and your family and checking back here or on Instagram. Just happened across your blog after reading Tattered Garden! Love and prayers! So glad your family can help you also!
ReplyDeleteSo sorry to hear of all your life issues, Audrey. I hope everything can get resolved and that your house move goes well...hugs x2 and thanks for all of your many wonderful postings through the years...Julierose
ReplyDeleteWords can't express my sympathy for the various sorrows you're currently enduring, too many losses in such a short time. I hope you'll take care of yourself and stay strong in the faith as you negotiate all the changes. And hoping you'll find your next smaller home has a cozy nook where you can set up your sewing space as you settle in. Guess I'll finally have to fall down the Instagram rabbit hole so I can see your photos when you have time to post. Love and prayers for you and your entire family.
ReplyDeleteoh what a sad time you have had. I'm so sorry for your son and the whole family that is so hard to take - expecting joy and get sorrow. And then your parents health and feeling that you need to downsize as well - that is just so much to cope with. I hope that when you get settled into a new place that you will have at least a small sewing space that can be dedicated to that - stay in touch and will watch for you on instagram too.
ReplyDeleteOh Audrey, I was so excited to see a blog post from you, but so sorry about all the hard times you've been having! Deepest sympathies to you, and will be happy for anything you share here...
ReplyDeleteI’m so sorry to hear about your baby granddaughter. Words seem so inadequate. You are so strong and it sounds like you are dealing with everything as well as you can. Just take it day by day and don’t forget to take care of yourself. Know that you are in the thoughts and prayers of others.🩷
ReplyDeleteDear Audrey, you have been dealt a very full hand all in such a short period of time. My heart goes out to you and your family. It sounds like you are surrounded by lots of love and helpers, so take one day at a time and trust that you are all headed in the right direction. And never underestimate the therapeutic value of a needle and thread - you don't have the bandwidth for it now but I suspect that as time passes it will be there to comfort you again and help you process all that is going on. Thank you for all of the inspiration and genuine spunk that you brought to my quilting world.
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry for the losses you and your family are experiencing right now, as well as those to come with your parents and your need to move and downsize. I hope you will have a special place for your creative life in your new home because that can sustain and comfort you as the next changes come. I am wishing you the best possible outcomes for all that is ahead of you.
ReplyDeleteSuch a lot to deal with, Audrey, my heart goes out to you. Grieve as you must, do what you can, hold on to hope for clearer days. Thank you for the inspiration you have shared over the years of your blog. I have been blessed to have found this space. Take care.
ReplyDeleteah these challenges do seem to all come at once...but take heart, a true quilter always finds a way to continue her passion...i had a quilty room once but now am relegated to half a small living room...not spacious or fancy but it does work. even when couch surfing with mom i was able to set up my featherweight on a table every day for sewing time...you will find a way...tough times don't last but tough people do...
ReplyDeleteSending my condolences for your losses and changes. Life can be such a roller coaster , sometimes filled with joy, sometimes sorrow. Wishing you strength and courage as you move forward and I hope your creating and stitching provides some measure of peace, comfort, and stability through it all. I hope you’ll be able reconnect with your online friends at some point!
ReplyDeleteHard times for sure, Audrey, and I hope you find the health and strength to handle them. You are lucky to have children to help you through these challenges. The loss of your quilting room is the least of it. In the future when you can, you will find a way to make do. Sending hugs.
ReplyDeleteAudrey - so wise of you to lean into this new season. I have enjoyed your blog and your style so much and appreciate your generous spirit. The Bramble blooms quilts have rekindled my passion for quilting so thank you for that too. Take care.
ReplyDeleteYour wildflower quilt top is beautiful. I love the colors. I do understand your difficulties. I am in the same boat with our health issues, etc. We know the day is coming, but surprised when it gets here. I keep telling myself I will get stronger, etc. but I probably won't. I hope you don't stop blogging. Occasionally pop in with some updates. I am so glad that you have help.
ReplyDeleteOh Audrey, I’m so sorry for your troubles, especially the baby. Our son and daughter-in-law’s first baby was stillborn, and our grief was as yours. They now have the most lovely boy and girl, but we still remember Samuel. Take care of yourself, and hope to ‘see’ you on Instagram over time. cathydanderfer@gmail.com
ReplyDeleteDearest Audrey, I am so sorry for your losses and troubles. Sending love and support. If you blog again [or not], and many others are here for you always.
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry that you and your son and daughter-in-law (especially her) have lost a dear baby. I look forward to whenever you can blog. I hope you will share what you learn as you change homes. I am so grateful that you were able to guide us through your method for improvisation! That is pure gold. Thank you for all that you do and share. I am sure that you and your husband will find a way to be comfortable in a new home with less maintenance. Love and hugs!
ReplyDeleteSo sorry to read about all you and your family are going through. Hope you can see the light at the end of the tunnel soon. Glad you will still be able to do a little sewing now and then because I know first hand it is a good way to help deal with any kind of stress. You do such lovely work. I will miss your blog chats so hope you do pop in every once in awhile because I'm not on Instagram or many other forms of social media.
ReplyDeleteThere is quite a lot going on in your life, Audrey, and so much of it stressful. Moving isn't easy either...I lost 5 pounds in the packing and moving us from the farm to here...that was the upside I always joke but it was because of the hard work involved. You know by now I am your most ardent fan and I hate to think of a quilting life with no Quilty Folk in it. Perhaps you'll drop back in with your creations in the future. Meanwhile, I'll check you out on instagram too.
ReplyDeleteYour Wild Flowers is super beautiful! God bless you in every way! Jesus said, 'In this life you will have tribulations, but take heart I have overcome the world.'
ReplyDeleteYour Quilt Friend, Janie
Your quilts are in my top 10 quiltmaker of all time. Love your creativity, love your quilts, refreshing, colorful, whimsical, sweet. Life can throw tough times at us. Prayers for you to have the strength and endurance to handle everything. Looking forward to your return to blogging.
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